Embracing Rest

Rest is a fundamental aspect of human existence, yet it is often undervalued in today's fast-paced world. In our relentless pursuit of success and productivity, we tend to overlook the importance of rest and its impact on our overall well-being. Rest is not merely the absence of activity; it is a state of rejuvenation and replenishment that allows us to function optimally.

In Western societies, rest is often associated with relaxation and leisure activities. It is seen as a way to recharge and escape from daily stressors. We typically engage in activities such as watching TV, reading books, or getting extra sleep.

Rest is often viewed as an individual pursuit rather than a communal one.

However, we are not often taught there are many types of rest that impact our well being, and some require the safe presence of those we trust and cherish most. Also, rest is not just for our physical bodies, but is needed for our physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

Saundra Dalton-Smith, M.D., the author of Sacred Rest, developed the concept of the seven rests our body and mind need to combat chronic rest deficits. One of the most overlooked types of rest in our culture, which is facing a loneliness epidemic, is social rest. While social rest may trigger the idea of isolation, it is quite the opposite. Social rest calls for making space for the relationships that fill your cup. We all have those friends where we know we can show up just as we are, and they are going to hear you without judgment. It is in the company of those friends in which we experience social rest. 

We must all learn to pay attention to our bodies, and listen to the first quiet cues that rest is needed. And as we approach rest, we must do so from a holistic understanding, making space to consider our physical, mental, and emotional needs. 

Physically, rest allows our bodies to heal and recover from the demands of daily life. It is during rest that our muscles repair themselves, our immune system strengthens, and our energy levels are restored. Without adequate rest, we become susceptible to illness, fatigue, and burnout.

Mentally, rest provides an opportunity for reflection and introspection. It allows us to step back from the constant noise and distractions of modern life and find clarity in our thoughts. Resting the mind can enhance creativity, problem-solving abilities, and decision-making skills.

Emotionally, rest helps us manage stress and maintain emotional balance. When we are constantly on the go without taking time to recharge, we may experience heightened anxiety or irritability. Resting gives us a chance to reconnect with ourselves emotionally and cultivate a sense of inner peace.

Rest is not a luxury but a necessity for optimal functioning in all aspects of life. By prioritizing rest in our lives, we can improve our physical health, mental clarity, emotional well-being, and overall quality of life. Let us embrace the power of rest as an essential component of living a fulfilling life.

Tabitha Yanuzzi, Clinical Resident

I desire to create a safe space for my clients to feel seen and heard, where we can work collaboratively toward growth and healing. I acknowledge that we are all unique individuals, so I strive to create a personalized treatment focus and utilize techniques that are tailored to the specific needs of my clients. I am passionate about working with couples, individuals experiencing grief, and those navigating life transitions. I would be honored to walk this journey with you. Gottman Couples Counseling Trained.

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